Episode DescriptionIn this candid and powerful episode, Jim Burgoon pulls back the curtain on a struggle many face but few talk about openly — people-pleasing. Jim shares personal stories of how his desire to keep everyone happy held him back from pursuing his dreams, building the right business, and caring for his own health.He reveals the heavy cost this behavior had on his business, family, and identity — including moments of doubt, burnout, and chronic illness linked to a “fried nervous system.” But more importantly, Jim talks about how prayer, scripture study, therapy, and self-awareness became turning points that led him to reclaim his voice, set boundaries, and learn to say no without guilt.If you’ve ever found yourself sacrificing your own needs to avoid conflict or please others, this episode offers hope, healing, and practical steps to start breaking free today.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhat people-pleasing really looks like and why it’s so harmfulJim’s personal stories of struggle with mentors, family expectations, and fearThe hidden costs: burnout, perfectionism, chronic illness, and loss of identityHow prayer, scripture, and therapy can bring clarity and healingPractical, actionable steps to begin setting boundaries and prioritizing yourselfWhy putting yourself first isn’t selfish — it’s necessaryKey TakeawaysPeople-pleasing is often driven by fear of conflict and a deep need for approval, but it comes at a high personal cost.Ignoring your own voice to keep others happy leads to burnout, perfectionism, and a loss of identityReal transformation begins with self-awareness — prayer, scripture, and honest therapy can unlock this.Saying no without guilt is a spiritual act that protects your calling, health, and relationships.Small practical steps like journaling your “yeses,” setting boundaries, and finding supportive community can start breaking the cycle.You are not a burden; prioritizing yourself is necessary to show up fully for others and your purpose.📱 Connect With UsInstagram: @leadwithjimFacebook: facebook.com/leadwithjimWebsite: www.leadwithjim.comYoutube: www.youtube.com/leadwithjim🙏 Support the ShowSubscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeartRadioLeave a review on Apple PodcastsShare this episode with a friendSubscribe, like, and comment on YouTubeJoin our newsletter → www.leadwithjim.com

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