Most husbands feel lost when their wife pulls away, shuts down, or shows no affection. The first reaction is usually to fix it, explain it, or control it. But real change starts somewhere else.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, you’ll learn the first step to becoming a steady, calm, emotionally secure husband: choosing curiosity over control. This simple shift helps you stop reacting and start leading — not by forcing change, but by understanding what’s happening inside of you first.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✅ Why trying to control your marriage pushes her further away✅ What curiosity really means and how it changes everything✅ How to pause and listen to your emotions without shutting them down✅ Why your reactions come from old wounds, not just your wife✅ How curiosity helps you become stronger, calmer, and more confident✅ Real tools to start showing up as a secure man right nowThis episode is for you if:✔️ You get angry, quiet, or shut down when your wife feels cold✔️ You try to fix things but nothing seems to change✔️ You feel confused or rejected in your marriage✔️ You want to feel more calm and clear in hard moments✔️ You’re ready to grow — but don’t know where to startIn This Episode:What control looks like in a hurting marriageWhy curiosity is the start of healingHow to lead yourself through pain and confusionWhat it means to father your emotions instead of hiding from themA real story from a client who started asking better questionsSimple tools to use today to stay curious and groundedYou don’t need to be perfect. You don’t need to know everything.But you do need to be curious. Because that’s the beginning of real strength.If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.

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