If I Stop Chasing Her, Am I Giving Up on Sex and Affection?

08/05/2025 9 min Episodio 26
If I Stop Chasing Her, Am I Giving Up on Sex and Affection?

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You’re tired of chasing your wife.Tired of being the one who always reaches out first.Tired of feeling unwanted, unheard, and unseen.So you’re asking the question:“If I stop trying, am I giving up on intimacy?”This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast gives you the answer — in clear, honest, simple language.You’re not giving up.You’re giving up the pressure.And that is what gives intimacy a chance to grow again.▶️ In this episode, you’ll learn:Why chasing creates distance, not desireWhat your neediness is really trying to fixHow to stop looking to your wife to feel like a manWhy emotional safety (not pressure) invites intimacyHow to rebuild connection from calm strength, not fearWe walk through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step path to shift your energy, stop chasing, and become a safe, grounded man your wife can feel again.🛑 Stop begging.🌱 Start becoming.If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.

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