High performance leaders often over-function due to decision fatigue, role pressure, and identity fusion. If delegation feels hard and success feels exhausting, this episode explains what’s really happening — and how identity-level recalibration restores clarity.Many high-capacity humans believe delegation is a skill they haven’t mastered yet. But what if that’s not the problem?In this episode of The Recalibration with Julie Holly, we explore why leaders over-function — not because they lack trust, competence, or systems, but because their nervous system doesn’t know where they end and the role begins.If you’re experiencing decision fatigue, success without fulfillment, role confusion, or spiritual exhaustion, this episode offers a long-awaited “aha.” We unpack how identity and responsibility quietly fuse over time, turning capacity into self-sacrifice and leadership into vigilance.Through nervous system science — explained without jargon — you’ll learn why over-functioning is automatic, why rest doesn’t land, and why slowing down can feel unsafe even when nothing is wrong. This is not about doing less; it’s about restoring identity boundaries so leadership becomes discerning rather than compulsive.We also explore a real-world example from Kathleen Hogan, who led cultural transformation at Microsoft. As leaders learned to separate identity from role, collaboration increased, psychological safety expanded, and innovation accelerated — proving that clarity strengthens both people and organizations.This conversation is especially relevant for high-capacity humans navigating career transition, leadership evolution, or the quiet realization that what once worked is no longer sustainable.In this episode, we explore:Why over-functioning is an identity boundary issue, not a skill gapHow decision fatigue and role fusion exhaust the nervous systemThe difference between contribution by choice vs. compulsionWhy rest feels risky when identity is tied to responsibilityHow presence over performance restores sustainable leadershipToday’s Micro RecalibrationPause and ask:Where am I still acting like I am the role?Then notice:What happens in your body when you imagine stepping backWhere tension appearsWhere relief tries to surface but doesn’t fully landExplore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

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