Why Am I Always Saying Sorry? (How Over-Apologizing Undermines Your Confidence)

26/08/2025 6 min Episodio 27
Why Am I Always Saying Sorry? (How Over-Apologizing Undermines Your Confidence)

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If "I'm sorry" is your automatic response - even when you've done nothing wrong - this episode is for you. I'm diving into why so many high-performing women over-apologize, what it's actually saying about your confidence, and how to replace "sorry" with language that commands respect and credibility. You'll learn practical swaps you can use today, so you can stop shrinking yourself and start speaking with confidence - especially in the moments that matter most.   WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE Why over-apologizing isn't harmless and how it chips away at your credibility. The surprising ways "I'm sorry" signals self-doubt (even when you don't mean it to). Simple, confident swaps to use instead of apologizing unnecessarily.   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro: Why "I'm sorry" is sabotaging your confidence. 01:00 – How childhood conditioning shapes over-apologizing in women. 02:00 – The deeper beliefs driving unnecessary apologies. 03:00 – How over-apologizing impacts your leadership credibility. 04:00 – Confident swaps to replace "sorry" in everyday situations. 05:00 – Why confidence is a muscle and how to build it with practice. 06:00 – My personal story of ditching the "sorry" for childcare situations. 06:30 – Invitation to share your over-apology moments and get script ideas. 07:00 – How to unlearn this habit with my Say It Like a Leader Workshop.   NEXT STEP OPTIONS: ✔️ Say It Like A Leader Instant Access Workshop: http://www.corrielo.com/sayitlikealeader ✔️ Take the Overwhelm Culprit Quiz: www.corrielo.com/overwhelmculprit ✔️ Connect with Me on Social: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/iamcorrielo Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/iamcorrielo Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/iamcorrielo LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcorrielo YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/iamcorrielo TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcorrielo ✔️ Visit my Website: www.corrielo.com ✔️ Book me to Speak: www.corrielo.com/speaking ✔️ Enroll in Coaching: www.corrielo.com/coaching   SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE: Don't miss future episodes where we dive deeper into topics like leadership, personal growth, and turning challenges into opportunities. Hit that subscribe button and join the journey to confident leadership! ✔️ Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify ✔️ Subscribe on YouTube Podcasts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2iLLfzM7QKFoP2JFPE41hUl1SVHcH3IF&si=Fk3ZsBem6xBLRF1R

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