You Teach People How To Treat You

27/05/2025 22 min Episodio 91
You Teach People How To Treat You

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In this powerful episode, master coach Tony Caliendo breaks down one of the most transformational principles for business and life: You teach people how to treat you. If you’ve ever felt undervalued, disrespected, or taken for granted—in your career, your personal life, or with clients—this episode is a game-changer.Tony shares how setting boundaries, developing self-respect, communicating clearly, and recognizing patterns can radically shift how others treat you. He also dives into the real consequences of tolerating poor behavior and how to finally stop the cycle by owning your worth.Key Takeaways:✅ Why people treat you the way they do—and how you’re teaching them✅ The role of boundaries and standards in earning respect✅ How self-worth influences every relationship✅ Clear communication tips to reinforce your expectations✅ Recognizing behavioral patterns (good or bad) and correcting course✅ How this principle completely changed Tony’s coaching and real estate careersWhether you’re a business owner, leader, entrepreneur, or just ready to upgrade your relationships, this episode will help you reset the standard for how others interact with you.👇 If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to:✅ Like, comment, and subscribe to the channel.⭐ Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro: Why Time Is Our Greatest Asset01:12 – The Universal Law: You Teach People How to Treat You02:30 – Tony’s Personal Story: Marriott, Real Estate & Respect04:05 – The Power of Alignment in Relationships05:00 – The Role of Boundaries in Earning Respect06:30 – Early Real Estate Mistakes & Availability Trap08:15 – Why Self-Respect Sets the Tone09:45 – Confidence, Self-Worth, and First Impressions10:50 – Clear Communication: Say It or Suffer It12:00 – Asking Clients What They Need Too13:10 – Recognizing Patterns in Poor Treatment14:30 – Insecurity, Imposter Syndrome & Letting Boundaries Slip15:50 – Consequences of Tolerating Bad Behavior17:00 – How One Harsh Client Interaction Shifted Everything18:15 – Respect Starts with YOU19:00 – Tony’s Coaching Client Standards & Why They Work20:15 – The Hidden Cost of Burnout and Resentment21:20 – Final Words: Reflect, Reclaim, Reset