In Part 2 of this anniversary episode, Sarah continues the conversation with Simonne—this time one-on-one. Hubby Mark had to step out, but the questions kept coming, and Sarah didn't hold back. If you missed Part 1, you can check it out here They delve into the concept of emotional independence, exploring how not to lose yourself in a relationship, and why the phrase "two halves make a whole" might be the worst relationship advice ever. If you've ever wondered how to grow alongside someone while staying rooted in who you are, this episode will resonate.   Quote of the Week:  "You can't outsource your happiness. Not to a partner, not to a job, not to anyone." — Sarah McVanel   Greatness Together Podcast Highlights: EP41: Growing Together Without Losing Yourself 0:00 What does emotional independence really look like? 2:00 Why your partner shouldn't regulate your emotions. 4:30 Growing together while evolving separately. 7:00 What to do when one of you is struggling? 10:00 Simonne's observations on 27 years of love. 14:00 Lessons from Maslow's hierarchy and marriage. 18:00 Sarah's final reflection on love, life, and self-worth. 20:00 Next time: Has Feminism Flipped the Script Too Far? 21:39   Two People, Not Two Halves to Make One Sarah challenges the idea that couples become one. Instead, she offers a model of being two whole people growing side by side. This was a plot twist; she grew up with two happily married parents who professed that two halves become one. It just never suited her, and it didn't fit Mark either.  Sarah shares how early on, she made it clear to Mark: "I can't work harder on your life than you will." And because he was willing to grow, their relationship could grow too. He took that seriously and taught her how to take herself a little less seriously along the way, too. The episode explores emotional co-regulation, boundary-setting, therapy, and how to stay connected without collapsing into each other. It's an honest blueprint for sustainable love in the real world.   Simonne's Front Row Seat  As the daughter of this 27-year-long experiment in marriage, Simonne reflects on what she's witnessed—from the dinner table to family walks to late-night laughs. She discusses the playfulness and emotional intelligence, and how their relationship has helped shape her own understanding of love and partnership. It's not perfection—it's presence. And it's a beautiful reminder that sometimes, the best relationship role models are the ones right in front of you.   If you liked this episode, revisit: EP5: Do You Have High Expectations? — an early episode on self-worth, perfectionism, and finding balance in relationships and life.   Greatness Together Podcast Links:   Part I: How Do You Make a Marriage Last?  Greatness Magnified Subscribe to The Greatness Together Podcast

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