Listen "#36 I Challenged the World’s #1 Child-Attachment Expert! Erica Komisar"
Episode Synopsis
Erica Komisar is a psychoanalyst, clinical social worker, and author of Chicken Little, The Sky Isn’t Falling, a fiercely debated book about raising resilient adolescents in an anxious world.With over three decades of clinical experience, Erica argues that the roots of childhood mental illness—depression, anxiety, even ADHD—can be traced back to emotional stress in the earliest years of life, especially when children are deprived of consistent, attuned caregiving. And yes, that means daycare is in the firing line.Expect to learn why Erica believes ADHD is not a disorder but a stress response, how early separation affects a child’s ability to regulate emotions, the neuroscience of attachment and the mother-infant bond, how economic realities clash with developmental needs, what Erica thinks most studies on daycare get wrong, how fathers and same-sex couples fit into the attachment equation, why many modern parenting myths are dangerous, and much more. Correction: I state in the guest intro that Erica is a doctor, this is an error. Erica Komisar is not a PhD, MD or doctor of any kind. My mistake.Timestamps:00:0002:50 Myths of Parenting08:47 The Role of the Primary Attachment Figure14:59 Consequences of Distributed Attachment20:50 Economic Realities and Parenting Choices22:51 The Dangers of Daycare28:52 Understanding ADHD and Stress Responses30:15 The Genetic Debate on ADHD32:09 Sensitive Children and Environmental Impact34:38 Daycare: The Controversial Effects37:32 Alternatives to Daycare40:45 Community Solutions for Childcare51:30 The Role of Parents in Same-Sex Partnerships…📚 RECOMMENDED READINGChicken Little, The Sky Isn’t Falling: https://amzn.to/4dvh8YX_Follow My Neuroscience Podcast - The Giants Shoulder_Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5m3Gta5MtIYdk59pb2GJ7M?si=b33232eae67b4126Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/brief-enquiry-to-the-brain/id1752486249_Neuroscience Products I Swear By (Supports the Channel)_Manta Sleep Mask: Get the Comfiest Sleep Mask on the Planet (Use Code GIANTSMANTA10 https://bit.ly/4ilzfBL )Brain.FM(http://brain.fm/): Music Entrainment for Focused Deep Work (30 Day Free Trial: https://www.brain.fm/giantsshoulder)Consensus.AI(http://consensus.ai/): AI Powered Research (Use Code THEGIANTSSHOULDER for 1 Year Free Premium Sub)
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