In this festive episode, I explore why certain seasonal films—especially the beloved “Love, Actually”—may leave some of us cold (or even unsettled). With her signature wit and a psychodynamic perspective, I dive into the unconscious emotional patterns that emerge during December, using Freud’s theories to pull apart the charm, nostalgia, and suppressed feelings invoked by the holiday narrative machine.00:00:16 – Confession: Not a fan of 'Love, Actually'Julia shares her candid opinion on the film and playfully wonders if she's become the Grinch.00:01:02 – Freud Actually: Why festive narratives mess with usJulia introduces the main theme: how December ramps up old relational patterns and triggers regression.00:02:31 – Psychological dissection of 'Love, Actually' scenesJulia dives into specific movie moments: Andrew Lincoln's placard scene (reaction formation), Colin Firth and the housekeeper (idealisation), Emma Thompson and the necklace (suppression and denial), and Hugh Grant’s storyline (idealisation and power dynamics).00:05:43 – Why does this matter in coaching?Julia relates film tropes to daily life and coaching, discussing real-life psychological dynamics and festive pressure.00:06:24 – Stories as emotional projectorsJulia explains how personal reactions to stories reflect unconscious echoes—it's never just about the film.00:07:33 – Invitation for personal reflectionJulia encourages listeners to reflect on times they've felt pressured to like something and to be kind to themselves for thinking differently.Don’t Forget: Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts, and check out more from “Dynamics Of Everyday Life” for deep-dives into why we do what we do—not just during Christmas, but all year round.Thanks for listening! Sign Up for your free Resource Sheet HEREConnect with Julia:Website LinkedInInstagram

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