Listen "151:The Tyranny of Shoulds: Breaking Free from the Lie of Reality"
Episode Synopsis
We’ve all said it: They should have known. I should be further along. Life shouldn’t be this hard. But beneath every “should” lies a lie — one that shapes our behavior, our relationships, and our leadership more than we realize. In this soul-stretching episode, Leah Roling dismantles the tyranny of “shoulds,” exposing how dependency and co-dependency quietly run our lives. You’ll learn why we rely on others to behave a certain way to feel safe, how our brains confuse emotional discomfort for danger, and how to rewrite the hidden beliefs that make us chase control instead of peace. Through story, psychology, and powerful self-inquiry, Leah challenges you to let go of the manual you’ve written for everyone else — and finally free yourself from the need to make reality behave. If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to manage people, prove yourself, or keep life in line — this episode will set you free.
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