You might think your expectations are completely reasonable, but what if they're the reason you feel frustrated, unsupported, or emotionally drained during wedding planning? In this episode of The Aisle Help Podcast, Courtney Delgado breaks down one of the sneakiest sources of wedding stress. The Manual: The invisible rule book we create for how other people "should" behave. From your fiancé to your mom, bridesmaids, or even your vendors, these unspoken rules often sound justified ("Of course my mom should be supportive!"), but they quietly tie your happiness to other people's behavior, and that's where things get messy. When you learn to recognize your manuals and replace them with clean requests and self-leadership, you'll experience more peace, power, and joy in your planning. In this episode, you'll discover: What a "manual" is (and how it secretly shapes your wedding experience) Why "reasonable" expectations often lead to resentment and stress The key difference between a manual and a clean request This isn't about lowering your standards or letting people walk all over you. It's about learning the kind of leadership that makes wedding planning (and marriage) feel grounded, connected, and truly joyful. When you stop managing everyone else and start leading yourself, planning becomes lighter, calmer, and filled with ease and connection. 💍 If you're ready to stop tying your happiness to other people's behavior and start leading yourself with calm, clarity, and confidence, Vision to Vows is your next step. It's the program where we take this work deeper, helping you plan your wedding in a way that feels simple and stress-free while also building the kind of self-trust and communication skills that create a strong, lasting marriage. ✨ Join the Vision to Vows Priority List today at courtneydelgado.com/join to get early access, behind-the-scenes updates, and a special invitation when doors open for Founding Members.   Let's stay connected on Instagram: @courtneydelgado_ | @aisle.help  

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