A listener writes: “Every time I’m close to change, something drags me back into murky waters.” In this heart-to-heart, Darya reframes self-sabotage as a protective pattern working overtime—and gives you a calm, step-by-step plan to catch it early, rescue yourself mid-spiral, and build momentum that lasts (in minutes, not marathons).What you’ll learnA calmer way to understand self-sabotage (it’s protection trying to keep you safe)How to spot your tripwires before things unravelThe exact words and moves to shift in under two minutesA simple PM log that turns “setbacks” into data and directionHow to reduce reliance on willpower by changing cues and environmentTry this today (3 steps, <5 minutes)Write your top two tripwires (e.g., “I’ll start after I reorganize,” scroll urge).Set one If-Then: If I think “later,” then I set a 2-minute timer and begin now.Tonight’s 2-line log: “Tripwire ___ → I did ___.” / “Protection wanted ___ → Next time If-Then: ___.”The 10-Second Reset (save this)“This is protection working overtime. We’re safe. I’m placing one small brick.”→ Open the doc / lace the shoes / set a 2-minute timer. Start; don’t finish.Resources & linksFree Clarity Bundle — Core Values Self-Audit + Goal-Setting Workbook Habit tracker app of your choice (optional) for the 7-Day Sprint (any simple daily tracker works)Share your win (confidential)DM or email your two tripwires + If-Then. Identities are always private; Darya may share a few anonymously on the show to cheer our community on.Download the Goal Setting Workbook and the Core Values Self-Audit.If this helped you, maybe a friend comes to mind, too—share it with them and hold each other accountable. 

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