Why is it that when Black women are quiet, reserved, or simply minding our business, the world rushes to call us “stuck up,” “bougie,” or “mean”? In this episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we unpack the stereotypes and labels that follow Black women who set standards, protect their energy, and refuse to perform for other people’s comfort. We get into: The difference between arrogance and discernment Why being reserved often gets mistaken for being unapproachable How society pressures Black women to always be “on” and entertaining The backlash women face for having preferences in dating, lifestyle, and friendships Why standards don’t make you difficult they just make you selective This conversation is all about embracing stillness, discernment, and self-respect without guilt. Because being selective is not an insult it’s a boundary.

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