For stepmum support, tools, workshops and coaching, visit: https://stepmumspace.comThis episode offers something rare — a candid, compassionate look at stepfamily life from the bio mum’s perspective. Hearing the other side doesn’t invalidate the stepmum experience; in fact, it often brings understanding, clarity and a deeper sense of empathy for everyone involved in raising children across two homes.In this episode, Katie talks to Elizabeth*, a biological mum of three whose ex-husband is now in a new relationship. Elizabeth shares openly about the emotional complexity of being the parent “left behind,” the grief of losing the family life she imagined, and the shock of navigating co-parenting when communication breaks down.Elizabeth speaks with honesty about:The pain of her ex not being open about his new partnerReceiving a legal letter accusing her of harassment — and how blindsided she feltHearing about her children’s new experiences in the other home and not being part of themRealising that all the things her husband said he “didn’t want,” he now wanted… just with someone elseThe emotional fallout of watching your children form bonds with a new parental figureThe vulnerability that comes with separation, change and sharing your childrenThis episode is a gentle reminder that everyone in the stepfamily system has feelings, and the more we can understand each other’s pain — in a considered, kind way — the healthier the whole system can become.We are incredibly grateful to Elizabeth for her honesty, vulnerability and willingness to share her side of the story.Not her real name.In This Episode We Explore:What co-parenting feels like from a bio mum’s perspectiveWhy secrecy around new relationships creates distrust and conflictThe grief and jealousy bio mums may experienceWhat it’s like to watch your children build relationships you’re not included inThe emotional impact of legal letters and accusationsWhy empathy across households matters more than we realiseHow openness (when done kindly) creates calmer, healthier family systemsIf You Need Support Book a free introductory coaching call: https://www.stepmumspace.com/booking Learn more about Katie’s work: https://www.stepmumspace.comKeywords: bio mum perspective, stepfamily dynamics, co-parenting challenges, separated family emotions, stepmum and bio mum relationships, stepmum podcast, high conflict co-parenting, blended family understanding, emotional support for stepmums, co-parenting communicationHelpful Links: Stepmum Space website: https://stepmumspace.com Instagram: @stepmumspace 1:1 Coaching & Couples Coaching: https://stepmumspace.comUnderstanding each other’s stories creates space for compassion — and compassion makes stepfamily life lighter for everyone.To join the Stepmum Space Workshop visit www.stepmumspace.comSupport the show

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