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Episode Synopsis
Episode 18
In this episode, Charmaine and Jasmine, two licensed therapists, are discussing Kendrick Lamar’s song Father Time from his album Mr. Morale and the Big Steppers. We are discussing the context of the song and how it relates to so many of our lives. Join us as we discuss things we learn from our parents, our relationship dynamics with our parents, how we learn attachment and how it shows up in our behaviors as well as future relationships, and how we as Black people deal with emotions differently. We also discuss gender differences in parenting and teaching emotions. It’s a lot but it is so worth it.
Time stamps:
00:00 Intro
2:10 Things our parents taught us (good and bad)
03:36 Everything goes back to slavery/tough love
06:01 things Black parents say
8:35 Do men have the same feelings as women?
11:50 Why Black folks literally don’t have time to deal with their emotions
17:07 Parenting and attachment
Podcasts versions are at:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-dope/id1673538196
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DiRPvXY1ua6ftLg5FR98Q?si=aa3601b4b9ca490f
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/2a85c229-4bd8-4526-a65d-66b453998bce/mentally-dope
Mental health x Black culture
#Blackculture #mentalhealth #therapy #blacktherapist #blackyoutube #blackpodcast #blackmovies #throwbacktvshows #hiphop #kendricklamar #fathertime #MrMoraleandthebigsteppers #Attachment #Parenting
In this episode, Charmaine and Jasmine, two licensed therapists, are discussing Kendrick Lamar’s song Father Time from his album Mr. Morale and the Big Steppers. We are discussing the context of the song and how it relates to so many of our lives. Join us as we discuss things we learn from our parents, our relationship dynamics with our parents, how we learn attachment and how it shows up in our behaviors as well as future relationships, and how we as Black people deal with emotions differently. We also discuss gender differences in parenting and teaching emotions. It’s a lot but it is so worth it.
Time stamps:
00:00 Intro
2:10 Things our parents taught us (good and bad)
03:36 Everything goes back to slavery/tough love
06:01 things Black parents say
8:35 Do men have the same feelings as women?
11:50 Why Black folks literally don’t have time to deal with their emotions
17:07 Parenting and attachment
Podcasts versions are at:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-dope/id1673538196
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DiRPvXY1ua6ftLg5FR98Q?si=aa3601b4b9ca490f
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/2a85c229-4bd8-4526-a65d-66b453998bce/mentally-dope
Mental health x Black culture
#Blackculture #mentalhealth #therapy #blacktherapist #blackyoutube #blackpodcast #blackmovies #throwbacktvshows #hiphop #kendricklamar #fathertime #MrMoraleandthebigsteppers #Attachment #Parenting
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