This Is My Story... What's Yours? - Paul D. Lowe & Alex Sapala

27/10/2021 54 min Episodio 408
This Is My Story... What's Yours? - Paul D. Lowe & Alex Sapala

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Episode Synopsis

Paul is joined by Alex Sapala to talk about his life, from his humble but happy childhood beginnings in Malawi where he strove to be the best in school and eventually gained a place at a prestigious private school where he gained access to a curriculum and standard of learning that he never imagined he could take part in.
Upon graduating he received some sad news that rocked his world and meant he was suddenly in charge of looking after his siblings. The one thing that kept him going was that he needed to take control and use the qualifications he’d gained to get a good job for his family to survive. This led him to further education, studying abroad, eventually ending up in London where he got a job as an accountant with Deloitte. He now aspires to share business and financial knowledge with upcoming entrepreneurs and experienced business minds to learn and master the concepts and mindsets required to succeed, stand-out, have the edge and make a difference.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
I could see there was a distinction between people experiencing a difficult life and those who excelled in education who were able to turn their life around; working for good companies and having good houses. I picked up that I had control, so instead of concentrating on the fact that life was hard and difficult for me, I shifted my mindset to say I can turn my life around.
Being faced with tragedy and loss as a child made me think about what lessons I would teach my own children about life and how we sometimes suffer through the challenges that come along in life. It makes you think about what story you write or tell about your life. Understanding about mindset and grief helped me to write that chapter of my life.
Gratitude encompasses everything, in gratitude you’re understanding the everything happens for a reason and that challenges are there to teach you something that will make you stronger on your path to growth. Being grateful almost takes away the need for forgiveness because it doesn’t quite exist in that contest, you’re just grateful to be in that challenge.
As we begin to grow we begin to understand life and things at different levels of consciousness, to understand what is important and what matters in life, we begin to learn how love encompasses everything that we do and we can begin to pick which things we want to put emphasis on because everything is within us.
BEST MOMENTS
‘We didn’t have much when I was a child, but we were happy because we didn’t know any different.’
‘My family didn’t tell me that my father had died in case it distracted me from my GCSEs, it was hard to take, but I understand the thinking behind it now.’
‘The Greek myths were fascinating to me, my imagination let me experience a different world than my own.’
‘Negative energies don’t serve anyone. Gratitude helps us move forward and inspire others.’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): 
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA):
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): 
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): 
Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group
ABOUT THE GUEST
Alex is a prize winning chartered accountant with experience in financial markets from trading finance, capital hedging, structural foreign exchange and interest rates to operational risk from the world’s top financial and advisory institutions like Deloitte, RBS and JPMorgan Chase.
He has been involved in property development programmes of different types since 2008, with a building and managing a portfolio that includes standard buy-to-lets, student accommodation and other houses in multiple occupancy (HMOs).
He specialises in raising finance and providing potential investors and joint venture partners with ad hoc (to their specific requirements) and hands-free and hassle-free property investments solutions as well as coaching and mentoring.
Alex aspires to share business and financial knowledge with upcoming entrepreneurs and experienced business minds to learn and master the concepts and mindsets required to succeed, stand-out, have the edge and make a difference.
In his spare time Alex enjoys traveling, cycling and photography. He also maintains a keen interest in football and playing the odd round of table tennis.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100015114006160
Website: http://alexsapala.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.  
This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.
Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
CONTACT METHODS
Tel: +44 (0)7958 042 155
E-mail: [email protected]: https://www.Paul-Lowe.comWeb: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/

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