EP 42: Alter Egos, Shame Drawers, and Self-Trust: Reclaiming Your Authentic Expression

22/12/2025 47 min
EP 42: Alter Egos, Shame Drawers, and Self-Trust: Reclaiming Your Authentic Expression

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In this episode of Soul Inspirit, Summer is joined by stylist and author Jenn Koch, also known as the Style Dominatrix, for a raw and honest conversation about identity, self-trust, and radical self-expression. Together, they explore alter egos, shame drawers, fandom culture, and how style can either disconnect us from ourselves or help us reclaim our power. This episode is an invitation to stop performing for belonging and start dressing, living, and expressing from truth.   Timestamps: 3:50 – Discovering an alter ego through play 6:20 – Being "done with healing" 9:00 – Losing everything and starting over 12:00 – From codependency to self-trust 16:45 – "New level, same devil" 18:10 – Clearing your closet, clearing your energy 22:00 – The shame drawer story 28:00 – Spiritual fandom and identity 33:30 – Belonging vs standing out 39:00 – Capsule wardrobes and intentional style 42:00 – Dressing for power, not mood   Follow Jenn on Instagram   8 week transformation Priority List FREE virtual workshop: Unshakeable Peace Stay up to date with Soul Inspirit Texts Join the Soul Inspirit Email List Follow Summer on Instagram Website soulinspirit.com Join Siren Society Get Your Yes, No, Maybe So Oracle Deck Email Summer: [email protected]