Listen "005 - The Whale (Part 1 of 2): Understanding Fight or Flight"
Episode Synopsis
PART 1 OF 2:Our nervous system doesn't ask for permission - it takes over before we even know what's happening. In this two-part episode, Lora and Jeff discuss the fight or flight response, and how our nervous system reacts to everyday threats as if they're life-or-death situations. We explore how cultural conditioning can shape our responses to anger, anxiety, and fear and why recognizing emotions as signals - rather than actions - is key to reclaiming agency over our emotions. We explore:- Why the fight or flight response kicks in before logic has a chance- How our bodies react to modern-day stressors as if they're predators- The role of felt sense and somatics in recognizing emotional cues- How cultural conditioning rewards anxiety-driven behaviors- Why anger is an emotion, not an action - and how to hold space for it- Tools for metabolizing fear and anger in a healthy wayOur adventurer finds himself battling a threat that turns out to be no threat at all. Thrown into the water, his survival brain takes over. But when he finally surfaces, it's not a predator at all - just a curious whale passing by. The danger had never been real, but his body didn't wait to find out. Connect with So What Who CaresEmail: [email protected]YouTube: @sowhatwhocarespodcastInstagram: @sowhatwhocarespodcastFacebook: So What Who Cares PodcastTikTok: @sowhatwhocarespodcastFind Lora McCarville at: https://www.loramccarville.com/#SoWhatWhoCares #SoWhatWhoCaresPodcast #LoraMcCarville #JeffKalasky #FightOrFlight #EmotionalResponses #Somatics #SelfAwareness #SurvivalInstincts #MindfulnessMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #AngerManagement #CulturalInfluences #ManagingFear #MentalWellness #SelfRegulation #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #MindBodyConnection
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