Why You Keep Feeling Unwanted And the Surprising Fix

01/10/2025 9 min

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Episode Synopsis

Sheila explores the powerful concept from the book and rom-com "He's Just Not That Into You" and how it applies not only to dating but also to friendships, environments, and even career choices. Through personal stories of ghosting, shifting friendships, moving cities, and work struggles, Sheila shows how freeing it can be to recognize when something or someone simply isn’t aligned with you. This episode helps listeners cut through excuses, stop forcing connections, and start embracing the spaces where they are truly wanted. The message is clear: life is better when you invest your time and energy into people and places that are genuinely into you.Get your FREE “Is It Me or My Cycle?” Guide: https://meormycycle.smalltalkwithsheila.comCHAPTERS:00:00 – The book that started it all01:46 – Dating and ghosting lessons04:04 – Friendships and unspoken truths06:24 – Work, validation, and moving on08:46 – Living where you’re wantedFor more Sheila, check out:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smalltalkwith_sheila/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SmallTalkWithSheilaKEYWORDS:Sheila Kazan, Small Talk with Sheila, he’s just not that into you, dating advice, ghosting, friendships, career growth, work validation, moving cities, personal growth, boundaries, relationships