In this episode of Silent Service, Matt DiMauro and Will Diesel explore the bold ideas found in The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. They discuss how Adlerian philosophy challenges common beliefs about trauma, choice, and freedom, inviting listeners to consider the deeper purpose behind their actions. Matt and Will reflect on the power of self-acceptance, the courage to stand firm in one’s convictions, and the lasting fulfillment that comes from contribution rather than competition. The conversation also touches on the importance of perspective and the wisdom of knowing which responsibilities truly belong to us.Chapters0:00 — Introduction3:01 — Mental and Emotional States5:54 — Etiology vs. Teleology8:52 — Past Trauma and Present Choices12:05 — Interpersonal Relationships15:07 — Vertical vs. Horizontal Relationships17:59 — Praise and Rebuke28:26 — Parent-Child Relationships29:29 — Separation of Tasks33:28 — Personal Responsibility35:25 — The Freedom to Be Disliked46:10 — Contribution Over Competition52:32 — Self-Acceptance and Community53:30 — Perspective and HumilityTakeawaysThe book encourages self-approval over seeking approval from others.Etiology focuses on past causes, while teleology emphasizes future goals.Trauma should not dictate one's future choices.Interpersonal relationships are the root of many emotional struggles.Freedom comes from not being bound by others' perceptions.Vertical relationships create hierarchies, while horizontal relationships foster equality.Contribution to others leads to true happiness, not competition.Separation of tasks is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships.Self-acceptance and confidence in others are key to happiness.Perspective is essential; we are not the center of the universe.Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, iHeartRadio, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. New EpisodesEvery Wednesday and Friday. Follow UsInstagram & TikTok: @silentsvcpod Hosted byMatt DiMauro & Will Diesel Support the ShowIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend! We donate 100% of proceeds to charity.Got a cause you care about? Send a quick pitch to [email protected] — we’d love to hear your story.

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