We say we want men to open up… But when they do, why do we flinch?In today's solo, Davina unpacks the invisible conditioning that makes male vulnerability feel unsafe, unattractive, or overwhelming to the very people asking for it. From personal stories to societal scripts, she names the tension many women hold: the craving for emotional intimacy and the recoil when it finally arrives.This is for the women raising men, loving men, or grieving the men they've lost—and for the men trying to be something other than stoic and shut down.This isn’t about coddling. This is about courage.03:22 – Do we flinch when he shifts? The identity crisis of feminine discomfort 04:55 – Childhood wiring: How we’re conditioned to expect stoicism from men 06:09 – Personal story: Her husband cried—and she didn’t know how to hold it 08:44 – Research: Women say we want emotion, but subconsciously reject it 10:04 – “Now I have to fix you too?” → Why male emotion triggers overwhelm 10:40 – The SHIFT Framework in action: unpacking the reaction 16:07 – Tools: What to say when he’s spiraling (and why he might not know what he needs) 19:10 – When softness shows up—do we welcome it or weaponize it? 21:05 – Soul’s friend: How emotional safety can deepen sexual and spiritual intimacy 22:31 – You want to feel him? Stay—even when it’s messy 24:29 – His tears aren’t collapse. They’re a rebuild.💭 SHIFT Rx (Tuesday) → Want Him to Talk? Here's Why He's Not🎙️ Guest Interview (Thursday) → Men's Coach Jason Lange joins us for a powerful conversation about men's mental health, masculinity, conditioning, and how to overcome our limitations.🚨 Want to stop parenting from old code?Join the Parental SHIFT and learn how to stop reacting from your past—and start leading from your actual self.Take Action:Book a Clarity CallTikTok: @asteadyspaceInstagram & Threads: @asteadyspace | @your_steady_space | @shifttalkingwithdavinaYoutube: @asteadyspaceVisit www.asteadyspace.com for more information about coaching services and programs.Join the Community: Ready to take the next step in your emotional growth journey? Join the Steady Space community for exclusive content, monthly Q&As, and tools to help you stay steady and get your shift together.

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