21: LOOKING AT MONEY FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE - BE GRATEFUL & ENJOY YOUR MONEY

03/07/2020 8 min Temporada 1 Episodio 21
21:  LOOKING AT MONEY FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE - BE GRATEFUL & ENJOY YOUR MONEY

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TRANSCRIPT FOR EP21:Welcome to SHE is Confident. Hi! This is Deon Teh and in this episode, I will be sharing with you about BE GRATEFUL AND ENJOY YOUR MONEY.It is always interesting to see how we view money and how we treat our money.We usually have such a thinking that we should work hard, save hard and dont spend money unnecessarily. Of course, if we were to have money , we need to use it wisely and plan it well.Some of us will think, if I were to have this amount of money, I should save up for my children and this way, they will not suffer when I’m gone. Have you ever considered that we might be limiting their ability to earn money. While some of us will also worry that there is a limit to our earning capability and so we must save and keep without spending for what we deserve to spend or spend for your self improvement or for getting for yourself. Money by itself is not valuable , the nature of money is to circulate and only by doing so, then it will produce value. Money is a useful tool, hence we should learn to love it and unify with it.In this episode, I would like to share with you how I plan and spend my money. One of my life plans is to protect myself by buying a suitable Insurance cover, I bought it because it can help me whenever I happen anything and I can just let go of this and concentrate on my present journey that I need to complete without much worrying.Under my planning, one of the most important aspects is having insurance cover. I buy because it will help me in terms of my medical bills and also cover me for any accidents, and if anything were to happen to me and I cannot work, I still get a sum of money to support myself. I can let go , be free and focus on my present journey that I need to complete without much worries. I learnt this through the mistake of my parents. When I was younger, my parents fell very ill and they did not have any insurance cover and they used up alot of money from my siblings to pay their hospital bills. Looking at them, I always feel that we should be well covered by insurance and be free of this worry.After going through the cycle of buying expensive or branded items, and not getting any satisfaction or happiness from owning them, I learned that instead of spending money on these items, why not spend it on travelling instead. Although we cannot bring back or keep the travel destinations, the experiences, memories and learnings are far better than the gifts we buy. I get to travel to any destination I like to enjoy the different cultures and it has widened my mind and gave me an opportunity to cleanse my inner self. Through my years, I have also realised that books are my giant mind and my greatest mentors that I can count on whenever I need them. I will continue to read up on books to learn more about balancing one’s body, mind and soul. Although I am not wealthy, I feel satisfied with my life. In my younger days. I used to think  that I can only achieve happiness by having more money.  But now, I no longer feel like this. Everyone will fear losing their money. What happens when you lose them or finish spending all your money? Have an open heart and dont keep holding on to the fear when it comes. Learn to let it go and be grateful for what you have and don't worry about what you don't have. In recent years, I realised that when I have a purpose in life, I become clearer and I know how to spend money in a wiser way and every cent that I spend will be worthwhile. Money is just like a friend that brings along happiness, joy and riches. In order to become good friends with it, I decided to change my frequency and vibrate with happiness, joy and gratefulness from my inner heart. I spend it with a simple heart. When I need to let it go, I will do so with joy and if money needs to be saved up, I will put it into different categories to manage it. I struggle less when I spend as I am more aware with what I want to do with my money. When we work and earn money, are we doing it for ourselves or for someone else?We might think that when we don't spend, we will feel better. However, depriving yourself and torturing yourself without spending a single cent, will not only make you miserable, it can also make your body sick too.If you do not love your money enough, you will not be able to earn and still have enough left at the end of every month, If you love money but you keep worrying about the future and feelings of insecurity without having money, it will prevent you from earning more money.When you enjoy the moment , the money you spend will be worthwhile and it will bring you satisfaction. Don't spend with fear and after spending have worrying thoughts about where to get money if you are unable to work anymore. As long as we are present for the moment, there will always be a way to resolve all your problems.If you want to talk about transforming your inner child, healing your relationships with yourself and money, connect with me through my Facebook and the link is in the show notes.Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/I look forward to seeing you in my next episode where I will be sharing with you - WHAT DO I THINK OF MONEY