Lots of people love to argue. But few know how to change someone's mind.Victor takes a look at why using great arguments in the wrong situation can be counter productive. When you are arguing -- ahem, talking passionately -- with someone, what's often needed are a listening ear and pointed questions. If you want to improve your ability to persuade someone, this episode is for you. Parental pause point questions:1. Do you think letting your opponent know how wrong they are is a good way to win an argument? (3:43)2. Have you tried any of these approaches? How did they work? (5:54)3. Which of The Great 8 would you apply to those arguments? (7:06)4. Have you ever been in a debate with an individual? How'd it turn out? (16:14)5. Think back to your last argument. What would you have done differently? (30:36)The Great 8 questions:1. What happens next?2. Has this been tried before?3. Is there a principle involved?4. What are the trade-offs?5. What do you mean by that?6. Is this an appeal to emotion or logic?7. Am I focused on the speaker or the argument?8. What does the Bible say?

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