How to Redefine Success in Parenthood and Life with Hunter and Dulce Irving

27/12/2021 50 min
How to Redefine Success in Parenthood and Life with Hunter and Dulce Irving

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Life rarely works the way we want it.Parenthood holds an immense responsibility in molding your children. Your ability to nurture either makes or breaks your family. The intrinsic duties of a parent, though, tend to run us over and bury us with overwhelming emotions. Reevaluating and regrouping as an individual and as a family will assist in determining the best plan for you. In this episode, host Tim Winders turns the microphone over to his daughter and son in law. Hunter and Dulce recount how they dealt with last year's hardships and how things are going this year. They share updates on their life, starting from Dulce’s motherhood journey to Hunter’s early stages of coaching. Hunter and Dulce discuss how ministry and community help them move forward in their journey. And with counseling, they are able to refocus their priorities toward the future they desire.Listen to this episode if you find yourself wondering what success truly means.3 Reasons to Listen:Find out from Hunter and Dulce’s reflections about counseling and having disciplines as a way of life.Discover ways you can unlearn and relearn your definition of success.Learn how having a community helps in reshaping Hunter and Dulce’s life.ResourcesSubscribe to our website to get resources from our guests and receive updates on our latest giveaways and episodes.Episode DetailsEpisode Highlights[01:11] Dulce’s Motherhood Journey Now Vs. A Year AgoHunter and Dulce hit rock bottom in a lot of areas in their life last year.Dulce describes her 30th birthday as the worst of her life as her mental health took a significant hit.Unlearning previous mindsets and counseling were necessary for her to redefine her success. Allowing her husband to be the provider for the family was a major test of her faith.Despite her circumstance, she is physically and mentally preparing herself to be a mom. [04:37] Dulce’s 30th Birthday and its SignificanceDulce had a lot of expectations going into her 30th birthday.It was a symbol of her advancing to the next decade of her life.Dulce regards that year as noteworthy because of all she accomplished in the previous decade.[05:37] Having a Serious Conversation TogetherCounseling helps them realize their goals moving forward.One of their goals is to create financial stability for their family.Having the right mindset helps them prepare for this goal.[06:27] How the Right Mindset Starts Positive ChangeWhat affects one person in the family affects the whole family. It is important to perceive yourself as a whole community, before evaluating your individual setbacks. Dulce remarks how much God has influenced her mental healing.[07:45] Redefining SuccessHunter notes that Dulce has toned down her energy for certain things and reaps more rewards as a result.Dulce recalls her father’s story about the real estate crash of 2008 and how her parents responded to this event, which eventually inspired her definition of success.The overworking culture of her parents contributed to Dulce’s wrong outlook of pursuing and achieving success. This year, Dulce has been able to seek peace, trust God, and let Him work in her life.[10:47] Unlearning Things from Dulce’s Childhood Dulce remarks that people experience layers of paradigms of what they...

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