Defensiveness isn’t proof your partner doesn’t care. It’s a sign they don’t feel safe.In this episode we reveal the truth about defensiveness:Why defensiveness is really about protection, not rejectionHow shame, fear, and not feeling enough fuel the walls in your relationshipThe exact steps we used to break the cycle and finally open up honest conversations “Defensiveness isn’t the problem. Disconnection is. When you meet the defense with compassion instead of fighting it, everything changes.” If you’ve ever thought:He just won’t open upEvery conversation feels like hitting a wallWe can’t talk without it turning into an argument This episode will shift how you see defensiveness and show you how to create safety, honesty, and connection. Save this for when you feel shut out. Send it to a friend who’s tired of hitting the same walls. Full episode: “Why Is My Husband So Defensive & How To Get Him To Open Up” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagerecovery #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain Work With UsReady to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Aston & Adam SimmondsInstagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds Instagram (Adam): https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the ShowIf this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: ...

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