Roommates with Rings: The High Functioning Disconnect

09/10/2025 21 min

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Episode Synopsis

Are you married but feel like you're living with a roommate with a ring? You've built a great life and run the house well, but emotionally, something vital is missing. You're leading parallel lives, and the silence is deafening. You are not alone—a 2021 study found that 34% of long-term married couples describe themselves as roommates more than partners.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller breaks down the widespread phenomenon of "roommate syndrome" and explores why logistical excellence often comes at the cost of emotional intimacy.You'll discover:- The difference between logistical maintenance (schedules, bills) and relationship maintenance (emotional check-ins, vulnerability).- Why couples drift apart even without fighting, and why noticing something is missing is a sign of emotional maturity.- The hidden cost of thinking "we're fine" and how emotional neglect compounds invisibly over years.- The dangers of "business creep" and becoming a "human doing" instead of a "human being" in your relationship.- The simple, actionable investments you can start making today—like regular emotional check-ins—to schedule in intimacy, fun, and connection.It's time to stop just coexisting and start co-creating a marriage that is both efficient and truly alive.Grab your free resources and join the community here to help you bring life back to your marriage: www.richhinrelationship.com🔗 Stay connected with us:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationship💬 Like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations about healthy relationships, intimacy, and personal growth.#richinrelationship #relationshipgoals #partnership #personalgrowth #communication #healthyrelationships #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #marriage #intimacy