Collies told not to herd. Huskies told not to run. Guarding breeds told not to guard.
In today’s world, we often expect dogs to suppress the very instincts they were bred for — all to fit into human lifestyles. And when they can’t, we turn to training, conditioning, and behaviour management to “fix” the mismatch.
In this episode of Rewriting the Rules, Bethany Bell (founder of the Canine Dialogue Dynamics Method) explores what happens when dogs and lifestyles clash — and why the answer isn’t more control, but more understanding.
You’ll discover:
– Why lifestyle matters more than space or climate.
– How over-conditioning and suppression are used to “force the fit.”
– The emotional cost for dogs when their instincts are constantly restrained.
– Real alternatives: adapting our lives to meet dogs’ needs, instead of the other way around.
This isn’t about blame — it’s about rethinking the way we live with dogs, opening up conversations, and creating more sustainable, compassionate matches between humans and their canine companions.
Next week’s episode: Enrichment vs. Pressure. Are Kongs, puzzle toys, and scatter feeding really enriching our dogs’ lives — or are they sometimes adding stress instead?
Further resources 
Free Learning: 
What is the CDD method?
Our Free Facebook Group
Our YouTube Channel
Facebook Page
Bethany’s Facebook Page 
Our Blog
Website
Free Rescue Course


Take The Next Step




Our Programmes  –  Work With Bethany One To One 
Our Online Courses
Bethany’s Books 
Rewriting the Rules: The CDD Mentorship
Online Programmes
Surrey & Surrounding Areas- Programmes
Student Group
If you’re ready to step into something different—something kinder, wiser, and more meaningful—you’re in the right place.
Let’s raise dogs with dignity. Let’s teach through connection. Let’s begin the conversation.


 
 

Ver todos los episodios