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Episode Synopsis
Brief summary of episode:
When a relationship ends, the problems don’t all go away, especially when you’re forced to co-parent. In this episode you’ll hear practical tips you can apply in dealing with your ex or soon-to-be ex. Whether it’s dealing with finances, fairness, or emotional wounds, you’ll find help here.
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Three Takeaways
It is in your children’s best interest to have a positive relationship with both of their parents. Remember this at all times! Your kids deserve one parent who is healthy and doing their best to be living godly principles.
When communicating with a destructive spouse, use BIFF…Brief, Informative, Firm, and Friendly
In order to experience peace you must give up the NEED for him to understand your reasons, your NEED for him to understand and agree with you, even your NEED for him to support you. When you NEED anything from him he then has the ability to hold you as an emotional hostage.
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When a relationship ends, the problems don’t all go away, especially when you’re forced to co-parent. In this episode you’ll hear practical tips you can apply in dealing with your ex or soon-to-be ex. Whether it’s dealing with finances, fairness, or emotional wounds, you’ll find help here.
Subscribe
Apple * Google * Spotify * Amazon * iHeart
Three Takeaways
It is in your children’s best interest to have a positive relationship with both of their parents. Remember this at all times! Your kids deserve one parent who is healthy and doing their best to be living godly principles.
When communicating with a destructive spouse, use BIFF…Brief, Informative, Firm, and Friendly
In order to experience peace you must give up the NEED for him to understand your reasons, your NEED for him to understand and agree with you, even your NEED for him to support you. When you NEED anything from him he then has the ability to hold you as an emotional hostage.
Resources
Join Leslie’s email list to receive her free newsletter and to be notified when new classes open. www.leslievernick.com
Empowered to Change is open until the end of March. Sign up at www.leslievernick.com/groupcoaching
Conquer will be opening to new members in April. Join the wait list here: www.leslievernick.com/joinconquer
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