RESOURCES:
Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-GET-SAFE (1-800-799-7233)
Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start
The Hidden Depths of Addiction
Discovery of her husband's addiction
Struggles with expectations of respect and family values, especially within the church setting

Facing Anger and Abuse
Anger and threats escalate
Irrational anger
Psychological and physical toll of the marriage

The Impact on Children
Tansil's fear and realization of the impact on her children
Protective actions taken to shield her children from the abuse

Recognizing Red Flags
Reflection on early warning signs before and soon after marriage
Importance of identifying and not ignoring red flags in relationships

The Turning Point: Seeking Safety
Seeing the truth
Initial steps towards seeking help and legal separation

Legal Separation and Its Aftermath
Hiring an attorney and filing for legal separation
Emotional and practical challenges of separating from an abusive spouse
Experiences with victim services and legal protection

Support Systems and Conquer Community
Participation in Conquer and the support gained from the community
Key lessons and validations received from fellow survivors
Importance of staying anchored in reality and implementing safety plans

The Role of Faith and Church
Challenges with pastoral support and their often inadequate response to abuse
Importance of faith and prayer in Tansil's journey
Positive and negative experiences with church leadership

Final Thoughts and Advice
Encouragement to listeners to trust their gut instincts and prioritize safety
Advice on not dismissing red flags and recognizing one's own worth
Final reflections and call to action for women in similar situations to seek help and support

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