Listen "Raised By Her | Episode 1: Moving Back Home, City Life, and HBCU Lessons"
Episode Synopsis
Welcome to the very first episode of "Raised By Her," the podcast where generations connect, reflect, and get real about life. Join mother-daughter duo Ro Nita (74) and Donnica (39) as they dive into the big decision that brought them back to the same city after years apart.In this episode, Donnica shares the hilarious and strategic story behind convincing her big-city husband to move from Washington D.C. back to her hometown of Dayton, Ohio. They explore the unexpected pros and challenging cons of swapping a bustling metropolis for a mid-size Midwestern city - from the cost of living and lack of direct flights to finding your professional and social footing.The conversation also touches on crucial life lessons, including setting the right precedents in a marriage (hear the hilarious "she doesn't cook" story!), the debate between pursuing passion versus a paycheck, and the transformative power of attending an HBCU. Ro Nita and Donnica share their personal experiences and perspectives on education, career, and what it truly means to build a happy life.Tune in for an honest, warm, and insightful chat between a mother and daughter navigating life together.Timestamps:(0:00) Intro: Meet your hosts, mother-daughter duo Ro Nita (74) and Donnica (39), and learn about their new podcast, "Raised By Her."(1:06) Moving Back Home: Donnica discusses her family's move from Washington D.C. back to her hometown of Dayton, Ohio.(2:37) The Strategic Move: The funny story of how a conversation at a winery with a sister-in-law was the key to convincing a New Yorker to move to the Midwest.(5:04) The Day He Learned She Could Cook: Ro Nita shares a hilarious memory of the first time Donnica's husband saw her cook for the family.(6:45) How to Set the Precedent in Your Marriage: Donnica shares powerful advice about establishing the dynamic you want in your relationship from the very beginning.(10:14) The Culture Shock of a Smaller City: The real challenges and adjustments of moving from a major city like D.C. to a mid-size one.(12:52) The 3 Biggest Pros of Living in Dayton: The hosts break down the top benefits, including family, cost of living, and the opportunity to make a real impact.(16:32) The 3 Biggest Challenges of Living in Dayton: A candid look at the downsides, from the lack of direct flights to navigating a "small town" mindset and finding a community of peers.(24:24) Choosing an HBCU: Donnica reflects on her journey to choosing Spelman College and the profound, confidence-building experience it provided.(33:22) The Power and Legacy of HBCUs: Why historically black colleges and universities are critical in producing a high percentage of Black leaders and professionals.(37:40) Is a College Degree Worth the Debt in 2025? A timely discussion on the value of higher education versus trade school, student loans, and different paths to success.(42:01) Career vs. Passion: Should your job be the thing you love, or should it be the thing that funds the life and passions you love?(46:21) In Honor of Rosa: The hosts dedicate the podcast to their family's matriarch and the generational wisdom she passed down.🎤 New episodes every week. Honest conversations between mother and daughter on family, womanhood, and navigating life across generations.👍 Like, 💬 comment, and 🔔 subscribe to be part of the conversation._________________________________________Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisedbyherpodcast/TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@raisedbyherpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RaisedByHerPodcast/
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