Listen "Empty nester wisdom with Pamela Henkelman (letting go of expectations, finding your joy again and choosing your words wisely)"
Episode Synopsis
We have another great episode in the Empty Nester Wisdom series with Empty Nest Coach and host of the Midlife Momma Podcast, Pamela Henkelman. It was so fun to watch her soar in this conversation and it’s clear she has a passion in this phase of motherhood.Pamela shares that this is a very sweet time of life that we can enjoy. We don’t need to dread this transition. It’s a season where we can rediscover our purpose and our joy. I know she will get you excited to look ahead to this new phase with excitement not dread.My favorite part is when she talks about her intentional thinking around relationships. She doesn’t just prioritize the relationship with her kids, she aims at loving their spouses well. Even if you’re 10 years out from being an “in-law,” tuck away this wisdom from a seasoned mom that is running her empty nest race well.In this episode, we chat about:Allowing children to grow independentlyConnecting with their spousesChoosing your words wisely with adult childrenLetting go of expectations with holidaysEnjoy!Courtney Chapters(00:00) Introduction and Personal Connections(02:57) Transitioning to Empty Nest Coaching(05:55) Navigating Relationships with Adult Children(08:57) Setting Boundaries with Adult Children(11:58) The Role of Spouses and In-Laws(15:00) Rediscovering Identity in Midlife(18:01) Embracing New Opportunities(20:49) Creating a Welcoming Home Environment(24:03) Success Stories and Client Transformations(26:46) Conclusion and ResourcesConnect with Pardon The Mess:Christian ParentingPardon The Mess Courtney DeFeo2025-2026 Prayer Journal: A Great Cloud of WitnessesResources from today’s show:Connect with Pamela HenkelmanFree! 10 things NOT to say to your adult childSheepgate - addiction recovery in IowaPardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out Everyday Dose and use my code MESS for a great deal: https://everydaydose.comPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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