Send us a textWhen the threads of fashion design intertwine with the stark world of criminology, you get Dr. Shelley, our remarkable guest, who weaves her insights into victimization and mental health with the finesse of a veteran. Our conversation traverses the misunderstood terrain of 'victim mentality,' highlighting the power of belief and validation in transforming lives. It's a heart-to-heart that promises to reframe your understanding of support and the immeasurable value of education, as we reflect on our own journeys as first-generation college students finding solace and purpose in the labyrinth of criminal justice.Venturing further, we tackle the thorny issue of toxic charity, where good intentions can sometimes lead to more harm than help. Our anecdotes bring to life the concept of experiential learning and its ability to cultivate empathy in those who wish to lend a hand. As we share poignant stories, you'll discover the profound difference culturally competent services can make, especially when facing the entwined challenges of cultural, financial, or familial constraints. It's a chapter that will leave you contemplating the delicate balance between aiding and empowering.Guess speaker: Shelly Clevenger @shellyclevengerhttps://news.illinoisstate.edu/2020/02/shelly-clevenger-named-recipient-of-rives-award/Book: https://www.amazon.com/Understanding-Victimology-Shelly-Clevenger/dp/1498772846Disclaimer: It's essential to note that while I am a therapist, this podcast is not a substitute for therapy. The stories and discussions shared here are meant to inform and inspire but should not replace professional advice or support. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a professional therapist or contact a helpline.🔔 And if you haven’t subscribed yet,6-Month Ethical Mental Health Trauma-Informed Coaching Training Waitlist: https://mailchi.mp/f8a4df05034a/8h49marbwoFree Resources: https://linktr.ee/Our.Oasis.Podcast.CommunityInstagram: @ouroasiscommunitypoEmergency Helplines Emergency: 988 NAMI Helpline: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) - www.nami.org/help National Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 or 988 - www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 - www.thehotline.org SAMHSA Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) - www.samhsa.gov LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline: 1-866-488-7386 - www.thetrevorproject.org Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) - www.veteranscrisisline.net Ayuda en Español: 1-888-628-9454 - www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/es National Deaf Therapy: www.nationaldeaftherapy.com BIPOC Therapist Finder: www.therapyforblackgirls.com www.therapyforlatinx.com www.asianmhc.org www.nqttcn.com ...

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