Is your son pulling away, shutting down, or showing little interest in school or chores?You’re not alone — and there is a way forward.In this third episode of our special 3-part ON BOYS series, we focus on how to foster intrinsic (inner) motivation in boys. Because yes, it’s in there — even when it feels completely buried.We’ll help you understand the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, and why both matter. You’ll hear real-world examples from our own lives and families, plus honest talk about what doesn’t work. (Spoiler: there’s no magic phrase that makes a boy suddenly say, “Sure, I’d love to do my homework!”).Photo By: Kaboompics.com via PexelsTakeaways:Inner motivation is the key to lasting engagement.External rewards (ice cream, screen time, earrings!) can work in the short term — even for adults.Understanding your son’s developmental stage helps you support him more effectively.Motivation-building strategies will look different for each child — even within the same family.Parents can boost motivation by aligning with boys’ goals and interests.his episode is part of our lead-up to the Boost Boys’ Motivation interactive class:3 live sessions in May 2025 with real-time Q&A, strategies, support & community. Register now at boysalive.com/boostUse coupon code ONBOYS to save $50 (just $99 for all three sessions!)If you’ve ever wanted to jump into the conversation with us — this is your chance.Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:Empowering Boys & Dyslexic Learners — ON BOYS episodeHow Your Anxiety is Sabotaging Your Son’s Motivation — ON BOYS episodeBoost Boys’ Motivation — ON BOYS episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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