Raising Boys Beyond the Man Box

14/11/2024 41 min

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Do you know what the “man box” is?Your boys do, whether they know the term or not. The “man box” is the set of expectations, perceptions, and behaviors that are considered “manly” in our society.In this episode, Jen, Janet, and Ted Bunch, Chief Development Officer of A Call to Men, explore the complexities boys face in a world that still clings to outdated ideas about masculinity. Ted shares his perspective on how we can empower boys to live authentically, develop respectful relationships, and move beyond the limitations of the “Man Box,” which often keep boys from becoming their true selves.Ted BunchTogether, they discuss ways parents and caregivers can help boys embrace their emotions, communicate openly, and understand the importance of consent. Ted also addresses tough topics, including the impact of pornography, the cultural confusion surrounding sexual consent, and how societal expectations can distort boys’ perceptions of masculinity. Through honest, practical conversations, this episode gives listeners the tools to support boys as they navigate these challenges and to foster connections that build character, respect, and self-awareness.In this episode, Jen, Janet & Ted discuss:How to help boys find and express their authentic selvesThe pervasive “Man Box” and how to break free of itWhy boys struggle to define consent—and how to helpPornography’s impact on boys’ relationshipsConversations dads and caregivers need to have with boysEncouraging boys to recognize the effects of their actions on othersUnderstanding and addressing the impact of sexual abuse on boys Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:A Call to Men — includes helpful information & data, as well as links to their programsTony Porter’s TED Talk about the Man BoxWhat I’ve Learned Since My Son Came Out — article by Ted, mentioned at 38:37The New Masculinity — ON BOYS episodeEmpowering Boys to Challenge Rape Culture — ON BOYS episodeGender Norms Limit Boys (& Girls!) — ON BOYS episodeSponsor Spotlight: IXLThe world’s most popular subscription-based learning site for K–12! Get 20% off at ixl.com/TODAYAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy