Send us a textAmber Fuhriman: Success Architect, Author, Speaker, AttorneyWebsite: successdevelopmentsolutions.comSocial Media: @AmberrayFuhriman (all platforms)Podcast: Break Your Bullshit BoxEpisode HighlightsThe Netflix Special Question (1:00) Amber opens up about her challenging year, describing it as "Down But Never Out" - a raw look at overcoming trauma while maintaining resilience.The Shooting Incident & PTSD Journey (2:18)Experiencing a shooting at an event one year agoThe unexpected onset of PTSD symptomsHow trauma shifted her perspective on victims and defense workThe identity crisis that followed losing her ability to "find good in people"The Art of Being Present (8:12)Why saying "I know exactly how you feel" destroys credibilityCreating safe spaces for people to "not be okay"The importance of asking: "Do you want a friend, a solution, or just someone to listen?"Intention Behind Communication (14:30)Before speaking, ask: "What is the purpose of this statement?"Is it to make you feel better or actually help them?Personal example: Dating after abandonment trauma and checking motivations before reaching outThe Power of Vulnerability (18:30)"True growth comes when we stop trying to hide our insecurities through behavior that society has told us is okay"Being honest about needs instead of disguising them in "acceptable" behaviorThe cycle of vulnerability, potential rejection, and sitting in discomfortFeelings Are Choices (25:00)"Their actions are all about them, and your response to their actions is all about you"The difference between warranted and unwarranted emotional responses"Choice is a powerful thing, and suffering is always optional"Reframing Grief (25:50)Grief can be experienced with sadness OR with joy, gratitude, and acceptanceStephen Colbert quote: "The things I'm most grateful for are the things that caused me the most pain""I prayed for flowers so I can't be upset that the rain came first"Current Work & ProjectsNLP Coaching & SpeakingNeurolinguistic Programming for business successFocus on sales, communication, and leadership blocksIn-person networking in Vegas, speaking engagements nationally/internationallyUpcoming Project: "Life Lessons: What My German Shepherd Taught Me About Play, Purpose and Perspective"Book, calendar, and workbook inspired by her 5-year-old German Shepherd JasmineEach chapter structured as dog commands (example: goal-setting chapter called "Fetch")Exploring what life would be like if we approached business and relationships from a dog's perspectiveKey TakeawaysAccept Where You Are: "Wherever you are in your journey right now is exactly where you're supposed to be"The GPS Analogy: You can't get where you want to go if you pretend you're starting from somewhere elseSit in Discomfort: Growth requires sitting in uncomfortable feelings rather than trying to fix them immediatelyCheck Your Intentions: Before offering advice or solutions, examine whether you're trying to help them or make yourself feel betterCreate Safe Spaces: Sometimes the most powerful thing you can offer is a place where someone ca

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