Season 2 Episode 23 Iceberg Theory

11/06/2025 7 min Temporada 2 Episodio 23

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Episode Synopsis

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the Iceberg Theory of Behavior—a powerful framework that helps educators and parents understand what drives a child’s actions.At first glance, a child’s behavior might seem obvious—tantrums, refusal to follow directions, outbursts of joy, or intense focus. But according to the Iceberg Theory, what we see on the surface is just a small fraction of what’s really going on. Originally inspired by the work of psychologist Sigmund Freud and later expanded upon by child development experts, this theory suggests that a child's observable behavior is only the tip of the iceberg. Underneath lies a complex network of thoughts, emotions, unmet needs, triggers, and developmental stages that drive what we see.In a Montessori context, understanding this theory allows educators to look beyond behavior and respond with compassion, curiosity, and support rather than quick judgment or punishment.""When your child acts out or shuts down, do you pause to ask: what’s happening beneath the surface? Montessori invites us to shift from reaction to reflection."

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