Asking for Help Feels Wrong, But It Shouldn’t

16/02/2025 4 min

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Asking for Help Feels Wrong, But It Shouldn’tKnowing the right way to ask for help can be tricky, people hesitate because they fear judgment, see seeking help as a weakness, or don’t want to seem dependent. However, the real difference lies in effort vs. avoidance. When someone asks without trying, it’s seen as laziness, but when they’ve genuinely tried, others are more willing to help. The benefits of asking for help properly come from showing effort first, as people naturally respect and support those who put in the work. True strength isn’t just about daring to ask, it’s about working hard, finding ways to ask for help effectively, and proving to yourself that you’ve done your best. When effort is clear, asking becomes easier, builds confidence, and creates meaningful support from others.Got questions or want to have a conversation on my podcast? Send me an email at [email protected]: https://tobiasphilipp.comProduction & edits: https://publishingpinnacle.com00:00 The Struggle of Knowing When to Ask for Help00:42 Why We Hesitate to Ask for Help01:42 The Difference Between Avoiding Effort and Needing Support02:32 Genuine Effort Before Asking04:07 Redefining Strength: It’s Not Just About Asking #Podcast #MentalModels #EmotionalIntelligence #HelpSeeking #SelfImprovement #Anxiety