Do you find yourself repeating yourself over and over again? Do you think your child will never listen? Try this counterintuitive suggestion: talk less, and they will listen more.How to Get Your Child to Listen Without Unnecessary Words:ConnectionConnection is the conduit to cooperation.Connection moves kids from a defensive state to a receptive one.MusicAlarm ClockCreate an environment where your kids can be independent.TimerMake a ListIf your child can’t write, let them draw a picture list.Race and competitionWho can get all the dirty clothes picked up fastest?Carrots over consequences: no empty threats911 scenarioWhen you need instantaneous obedience:ReconnectHugMake eye-contact.Understand their needs.Make sure they understand your plan.Play!Play is hardwired and God-given.“Scientists have determined that it takes approximately 400 repetitions to create a new synapse in your brain, unless it’s done in play, which takes between 10 and 20 repetitions.”The virtue of eutrapelia is the virtue of right recreation.Bring play into whatever they need to do.Play can help parents de-stress.Click here to book an SOS call with Kelly!Find Kelly on YouTube! Click Here

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