When Growth Means Goodbye: Letting Go of My Dad to Choose Myself

18/07/2025 21 min

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Episode Synopsis

This is the most personal episode I’ve ever recorded.I share why I made the decision to complete my relationship with my dad while he’s still alive—and how I found peace in choosing myself, even when it meant saying goodbye to someone I love.This isn’t a story of blame or drama. It’s a story of truth, of my growth and of becoming the woman I am now. And what it means to honor your boundaries even when they’re misunderstood.If you’ve ever felt like your evolution was threatening a relationship you care about…If you’ve stayed silent to avoid being rejected…Or if you’re afraid that becoming more of yourself might cost you closeness…This episode is for you.I talk about grief, boundaries, family patterns, and the quiet cost of self-abandonment. And how I finally made the choice to stop waiting for love I had to earn.You're not alone.And you're not wrong for growing.