Listen "The Magnetic Allure of Distress: Why Some People Only Feel Love When Healing a Partner's Deepest Wounds"
Episode Synopsis
Explores the tendency some people have to seek out partners in need of rescue rather than allowing themselves to be cared for. It notes that while most imagine wanting a supportive, nurturing partner, certain individuals instead feel drawn to those who are struggling, sad, or lost—people they can comfort or “fix.” This pattern often traces back to a childhood where love was scarce or conditional, shaping them into compulsive givers who provide for others the very care they once longed for. The avoidance of receiving care, the text suggests, comes from its strangeness and from the fear of confronting past wounds. Ultimately, it argues that real emotional growth lies in learning to accept love as well as to give it, stepping away from the protective role of the rescuer to embrace genuine reciprocity.Produced by:https://www.podcaistudio.com/
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