What if every interaction with your child planted a seed that would grow into tomorrow’s behavior, beliefs, and relationship with you?
 
In this episode, Bonnie and Thomas Liotta use one unforgettable image—a child covered in red lipstick with the mirror and white carpet to match—to unpack the idea of “black seeds vs white seeds” in parenting. Black seeds are born from negative thoughts and feelings: anger, frustration, and the urge to control. White seeds grow from validation, leadership, and a commitment to teach life skills instead of just correcting behavior.
 
You’ll hear:

How authoritarian, “positive,” and even many “gentle” parenting approaches still plant black seeds  
Why kids copy your lipstick, mannerisms, and habits—and what they’re really asking for when they do  
The difference between punishing a mess and using it as a chance to train missing life skills  
How to reframe tantrums, spills, and “bad behavior” as communication and opportunity  
The story of Pinocchio’s strings, free will, and what it reveals about our role as parents

 
If you’re exhausted from putting out fires, repeating yourself, and feeling like the “bad guy,” this conversation will help you shift from managing behavior to growing capable, confident, cooperative human beings—one white seed at a time.
 
Learn more and start your magical parenting journey at LearnToSpeakKid.com.

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