Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. In a world that praises visibility, success, and certainty, few things feel as personal—or as painful—as rejection. Whether it’s a job application, a creative project, or simply speaking your truth, rejection can stir up self-doubt, silence our voices, and leave us questioning our worth.In this week’s Bite Size Fridays episode of It’s an Inside Job, we explore how to build rejection resilience through the story of Aisha—a talented young writer who feared that her voice, rooted in her cultural heritage, might not be welcome in the publishing world. When rejections came, they felt deeply personal. But through the contrarian mindset, she shifted her lens and transformed rejection into growth, clarity, and creative freedom.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow to separate your identity from outcomes like rejection or criticismPractical tools to reframe rejection as information—not judgmentWhy your self-worth must be rooted internally, not externallyHow community and connection protect you from isolation and shameHow perfectionism masks fear—and what to ask instead to unlock creativityWays to turn obstacles into growth opportunities, not emotional setbacksThis episode is especially helpful if you’re navigating creative risks, pitching ideas, applying for jobs, or sharing your voice in any vulnerable way.Contrarian Strategies from This EpisodeFocus on reality, not emotional realityRejection hurts, but the story we add to it often stings more. Ask: What actually happened—and what am I making it mean?Practice internal self-worthDon’t tie your value to yes or no. Anchor it in your effort, honesty, and willingness to show up.Build social bridgesRejection thrives in silence. Connection—especially with others who’ve been there—dissolves its grip.Progress over perfectionPerfectionism is fear in disguise. Replace “Is this perfect?” with “Is this better than yesterday?”See rejection as a teacherEvery “no” contains insight. Look for patterns. Learn. Adjust. Keep going stronger.Perfect for You If You’re Asking:How do I bounce back after being turned down or dismissed?Why does rejection feel so personal—and how do I stop it from defining me?What can I do when my self-confidence takes a hit?How do I keep creating when the world doesn’t seem to notice or care?Additional ResourcesThis is Part 10 of our 15-part Contrarian Mindset series—helping you shift your perspective and strengthen your inner core through life’s challenges.Catch up on previous episodes here:Facing the Fear of VulnerabilityBreaking Free from PerfectionismMoving Through Imposter SyndromeOvercoming the Fear of Not Being Good EnoughReplacing Reactivity with ResponseEmbracing Change Instead of Resisting ItThe Fear of Deviating from the Known PathFinding Peace with the Path You’ve Chosen (FOMO)The Fear of No Keeping UpSupport the showSign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday

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