We all want change, but we don’t want anything to actually ever really change that drastically. So we fight to find out why we feel stuck or unhappy while simultaneously fighting to keep the same friends, lifestyle, job, hobbies, routines, etc. We hang on to familiarity like its our life line because it makes us feel safe and comfortable.

This weeks episode of In All The Wrong Places is talking about Looking for change in things that never change. I put a lot of pressure on on my happiness/fulfillment on other people/situations. Thinking that relationships, old friends, familiar hobbies, the things I am are good at, will change save me. But then when things don’t change I don’t blame the things I thought would change me, I blame myself. All that negative pressure gets put on me rather than the outside things I thought that love and acceptance was going to come from. 

And in the spirit of pushing to change things for ourselves I want to encourage you to make a small change this week. It can be big or small. But if something comes to your mind right away it might be the thing that needs changing. I am excited to hear what you get up to. Share your change this week with me on social @shannonbellisle. I can't wait to hear from you.

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