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Episode Synopsis
In this episode, I’m joined by Energy Speaks to discuss an empath and narcissist relationship. We share about when an empath takes on the characteristics of a narcissist to survive the relationship. We also share how you can identify and deal with narcissistic behaviors when they pop up in your relationship. And when it’s time to call it quits, how do you move on? How can you work on self-love? Why is it important to take your time to heal before bouncing back to love again in your next relationship? Tune in to listen to these and more tips.
Timestamps:
[01:08] Defining Narcissistic personality
[03:25] How a narcissistic relationship looks like
[06:25] Dealing with a narcissistic partner
[07:01] Narcissistic relationship only mode of operation
[07:22] How empaths can move on from a narcissistic relationship
[08:14] Can you change a narcissistic partner?
[12:20] Should you seek revenge?
[12:43] Focusing on the positives and self-love
[14:29] Taking your time to heal
[15:25] What you should know before starting any relationship with a narcissist.
[16:14] Energy’s closing remarks
Notable Quotes
● Oftentimes, narcissists will go into a relationship based on how it can benefit them.
When an empath takes on the characteristics of the narcissist to survive the relationship, even after the relationship has ended often the empath carries these same characteristics into the next relationship closing themselves off to love.
● If you can really get out of your head and say, “I know I deserve better, I know that I’m worthy,” then that’s the first step to turning it all around.”
● You can either fight for good or fight for evil. You can be for evil or you can be for good. But you can’t be for both.
● We are all constantly giving love and our energy to everyone else but the question becomes, how do we replenish ourselves on a daily basis?
● Everyone has a different path and a different journey but they will all get to the same outcome of loving themselves.
● It’s important to remember, you are the captain of your ship.
Resources:
Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/idyllicindie/message
Timestamps:
[01:08] Defining Narcissistic personality
[03:25] How a narcissistic relationship looks like
[06:25] Dealing with a narcissistic partner
[07:01] Narcissistic relationship only mode of operation
[07:22] How empaths can move on from a narcissistic relationship
[08:14] Can you change a narcissistic partner?
[12:20] Should you seek revenge?
[12:43] Focusing on the positives and self-love
[14:29] Taking your time to heal
[15:25] What you should know before starting any relationship with a narcissist.
[16:14] Energy’s closing remarks
Notable Quotes
● Oftentimes, narcissists will go into a relationship based on how it can benefit them.
When an empath takes on the characteristics of the narcissist to survive the relationship, even after the relationship has ended often the empath carries these same characteristics into the next relationship closing themselves off to love.
● If you can really get out of your head and say, “I know I deserve better, I know that I’m worthy,” then that’s the first step to turning it all around.”
● You can either fight for good or fight for evil. You can be for evil or you can be for good. But you can’t be for both.
● We are all constantly giving love and our energy to everyone else but the question becomes, how do we replenish ourselves on a daily basis?
● Everyone has a different path and a different journey but they will all get to the same outcome of loving themselves.
● It’s important to remember, you are the captain of your ship.
Resources:
Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/idyllicindie/message
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