Checkin: Hoovering & Self Love

02/01/2022 11 min Temporada 1 Episodio 103

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Episode Synopsis

Remember who you are!
Hoovering and Self-love
In this episode, I share about hoovering and self-love. What is the meaning of hoovering in a relationship? What are some examples? And what baggage do narcissists carry from one relationship to another? I also share some insights on the importance of knowing your partner’s history, not listening to the love-bombing stage, and why self-love should come first. Tune in to learn more about the importance of self-love when showering love to other people, and many more exciting topics!
Timestamps
[00:46] The meaning of hoovering in relationships
[02:09] The great example of hovering
[03:41] The baggage narcissists carry from relationship to relationship
[05:20] The importance of knowing your partner’s history
[07:13] Not listening to the love-bombing stage
[08:38] The importance of self-love
Notable quotes
● There is no possible way to be in a relationship with one person one day and then skip over to the next and think that you have completely healed.
● Narcissists truly never heal until they want to recover.
● It is essential to know your partner’s history.
● History repeats itself. Patterns don’t lie.
● You cannot forget to love yourself.
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