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Listen "185: Repairing Trust After Infidelity + Rebuilding Love With Master Coach Dee Tozer"
Episode Synopsis
Dee Tozer is a psychologist turned couples coach with over 33 years of experience. Dee shares her wisdom on the "disapproval effect" in relationships, highlighting key pivot points where breakdowns occur due to people's unawareness and lack of knowledge. Tune in to gain insights on navigating disapproval and creating a deeper love in your own life.
Golden Nuggets From This Episode:
✨ “A relationship can't thrive with disapproval.”
✨ ”The secret of a good relationship is asking the right questions.”
✨ ”In the moment of crisis, do the best to soothe and settle it.”
✨ ”Men are on the receiving end of the majority of criticism in couples.”
✨ ”You will never, ever go wrong by allowing the other person to be right, unless it's life or death.”
✨ ”Be patient and tolerant, this day and age doesn't give us a lot of.”
✨ ”It's a really good lead in to start with shame because shame, we feel shame because we are rejected.”
✨ "I think we all can take responsibility in some way, even if we weren't the one doing the act."
✨ "It's a long lifetime ahead of shaping, reshaping men, boys to men to be able to say what they want to say."
✨ "Remember that every single person just wants to be loved."
Connect More with Dee:
IG: @couples_master_coach
LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/dee-tozer-couples-master-coach
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/couplestransformationcoach
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DeeTozer-Couples-Master-
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Timestamps from episode:
01:59 The effect of disapproval
05:32 Disapproval and rejection
09:25 Wedding night gone wrong
12:25 Nipping disapproval in the bud
15:32 Communication and conflict resolution
19:38 Framing up effective communication
23:41 Giving up on relationships
26:49 Conscious coupling and relationship dynamics
30:57 Rebuilding trust after betrayal
35:06 Couples repairing after infidelity
35:15 Retreat Ad
38:07 A crazy story during lockdowns
42:57 Changing perception in relationships
45:18 Shifting perspectives in communication
49:02 Toothbrush storage solutions
52:40 Seaweed for a ring
Golden Nuggets From This Episode:
✨ “A relationship can't thrive with disapproval.”
✨ ”The secret of a good relationship is asking the right questions.”
✨ ”In the moment of crisis, do the best to soothe and settle it.”
✨ ”Men are on the receiving end of the majority of criticism in couples.”
✨ ”You will never, ever go wrong by allowing the other person to be right, unless it's life or death.”
✨ ”Be patient and tolerant, this day and age doesn't give us a lot of.”
✨ ”It's a really good lead in to start with shame because shame, we feel shame because we are rejected.”
✨ "I think we all can take responsibility in some way, even if we weren't the one doing the act."
✨ "It's a long lifetime ahead of shaping, reshaping men, boys to men to be able to say what they want to say."
✨ "Remember that every single person just wants to be loved."
Connect More with Dee:
IG: @couples_master_coach
LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/dee-tozer-couples-master-coach
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/couplestransformationcoach
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DeeTozer-Couples-Master-
More Lexy from Heart Snuggles:
Join the Retreat: https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/retreat
Email: [email protected]
Dating + Relationship Coaching -- https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/work-with-me
Instagram: Alivetoenjoy & Heart Snuggles
Donations to help spread the heart snuggles: https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/heartsnuggles
Timestamps from episode:
01:59 The effect of disapproval
05:32 Disapproval and rejection
09:25 Wedding night gone wrong
12:25 Nipping disapproval in the bud
15:32 Communication and conflict resolution
19:38 Framing up effective communication
23:41 Giving up on relationships
26:49 Conscious coupling and relationship dynamics
30:57 Rebuilding trust after betrayal
35:06 Couples repairing after infidelity
35:15 Retreat Ad
38:07 A crazy story during lockdowns
42:57 Changing perception in relationships
45:18 Shifting perspectives in communication
49:02 Toothbrush storage solutions
52:40 Seaweed for a ring
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