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Episode Synopsis
Have you ever felt like your entire identity was built around being the “good daughter”? Always responsible, agreeable, keeping the peace while inside you’re anxious, resentful, and completely drained? In this episode, I dive deep into the hidden cost of the “good daughter” role and how it shapes your nervous system, self-worth, and adult relationships.We’ll unpack:How the good daughter/parentified child dynamic forms (especially in eldest daughters and first-generation households)Why people-pleasing, hyper-vigilance, and repressed rage aren’t personality traits—they’re nervous system survival strategiesThe connection between the fawn response, shame, and chronic anxiety, burnout, and even autoimmune symptomsHow confusing love with self-abandonment leaves you exhausted, resentful, and questioning your identityWhat it looks like to break free: building safety in saying no, reclaiming your authentic self, and moving from obligation to devotionIf you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, people-pleasing, or carrying everyone else’s emotional weight, this episode will help you understand why and more importantly, how to step into a life where you feel safe being fully you.👉 Ready to go deeper? Inside my Regulate & Release program, I help women release the “good daughter” role, regulate their nervous systems, and reclaim their authentic identity without drowning in guilt. Learn more HERE. Book a free, no-strings-attached 30-minute clarity call with me here if you'd like to explore if this would be a good fit for you.Where to find us:Instagram: @dainwellnessTikTok: @dainwellnessdainwellness.com
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