On this week’s episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Brian Lee. Brian is a pastor, coach, and speaker. As a survivor of spiritual abuse and religious trauma, he has spent his time since leaving vocational ministry in 2021 working to provide recovery and resources for fellow victims and survivors. In 2023, he created and founded Broken to Beloved, a nonprofit organization that exists to help other victims and survivors through its Annual Summit and seasonal Cohorts, while also providing trauma awareness and safeguarding practices to pastors, leaders an​​d churches.🔗 Connect with Brian Lee💻 https://www.brokentobeloved.org/📷 Instagram: @brokentobeloved🔗 Connect with Steph!💻 https://ninetypes.co/📷 Instagram: @ninetypesco🎥Youtube: @stephbarronhallHere are the key takeaways:Noticing Type One patterns growing upFeeling like a mistake can lead to losing everythingThe Enneagram versus other systems of personalityKnowing what to do when trauma happensWhat is Broken to Beloved?Talking Spiritual Bypass (neglecting psych work) and Toxic PositivityHow does Brian’s type show up?Accessing the arrows to 4 and 7Shifting Type One patterns and moving toward transformation Working with shame and “worm theology”Discussing Brian’s Social Type One experience with the inner critic“One” by Sleeping At Last — “grace requires nothing of me.”Words for other Type Ones on this inner work journeyHow to connect with BrianResources mentioned in this episode:Tiny Traumas by Meg Arroll Internal Family Systems“One” by Sleeping At LastAs Long as You Need: Permission to Grieve by J. S. ParkIt's Not You by Ramani Durvasula PhDWant to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

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