Listen "Ep 25: "10,000 Conversations" with Rob Lawless"
Episode Synopsis
Rob Lawless set out to meet 10,000 strangers for one hour each. 7,000+ conversations in, the project has become more than a social experiment - it's a masterclass in empathy, presence, and the untold power of human connection.In this conversation, we go deep into what drives Rob, how he turned a bold idea into a global movement, and what he's learned from spending thousands of hours truly listening. From growing up in a big family, coffee shop chat and international stages, we unpack not just Rob’s journey, but our shared humanity.And in a twist, Rob flips the mic and interviews me for part of the episode, bringing out personal stories I rarely get to share on air. It's a conversation full of curiosity, surprises, and reminders of what really matters.In this episode:Why Rob started meeting strangers for one hour at a timeThe “Friend” framework for finding what connects usWhat 10,000 hours of presence can teach you about being humanRob’s storytelling superpowers — and how he discovered themThe discipline, empathy, and mindset behind long-term visionMy pie chart of identity — and what’s shifted since becoming a dadWhat’s next for Rob after 10,000 peopleWhy being present is the ultimate superpowerConnect with Rob:Instagram: @robs10kfriends LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rob-lawless-robs10kfriends/Connect with Jeff:LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/jeffabracen/Like what you heard? Subscribe, rate, and share Disruptive Influence!Chapters00:00 – Intro01:30 – How the 10,000 People Project Started04:54 – From Coffee Shops to Cruise Ships09:56 – The “Friend” Framework15:07 – The Art of Conversation20:03 – Post-10,000 Vision26:47 – Jeff’s Creative Roots29:48 – Life as a Timeline: Curiosity, Memory, and Storytelling32:55 – Natural Gifts and Learned Superpowers37:23 – The COVID Pivot That Changed Everything42:48 – The Real Influences: Family, Friends, and Gratitude44:21 – Books, TV Shows, and Staying Relevant (or Not)46:43 – Presence Over Performance48:00 – If We’re Popping Champagne Next Year...50:00 – A Masterclass in Presence51:57 – Mutual Gratitude and the Power of Saying YesConnect with Jeff Abracen on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffabracen/]If you are or know a disruptive influencer who would make a great guest, we'd love to hear from you. Every Like, Share, Subscription and Review means a lot.Cover art by Daniel DevoyMusic by Stephen Voyce©2024 The Disruptive Influence Podcast - Jeff Abracen
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