ACCOUNTABILITY: How Do I Hold Myself To The Standard In My Head?

01/12/2025 1h 50min Episodio 51
ACCOUNTABILITY: How Do I Hold Myself To The Standard In My Head?

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Accountability gets romanticized like a trust fall—close your eyes, lean back, pray someone’s paying attention. But what about the falls no one sees? In this episode, the OG squad (Zack, Derick, and Brandon) strips accountability down to the studs: the standards we set too high, the quiet ways we abandon ourselves, and the systems that stitch us back together.We start at the messy middle—where failure isn’t fatal, just feedback. From “day two of the 222-day challenge” face-plants to realizing peace can become a padded comfort zone, we unpack how internal accountability (values, routines, self-honesty) and external accountability (deadlines, teams, coaches, community) can either build you or bury you. Cue mountain switchbacks: progress that doesn’t look like “up only,” but gives you space to breathe, look back, and honor how far you’ve climbed.Then we wade into the hard stuff: people-pleasing disguised as accountability. The “yes” said out of guilt. The double-booked calendar that would make Outlook cry. The late nights that tax tomorrow’s goals. We talk boundaries that don’t bruise, gratitude that dissolves regret, and the patience to play a long game—because the road to success is always under construction, and your mission deserves traffic cones and reroutes.Finally, we get practical. What actually keeps you honest when no one’s watching? We trade templates for truth: simple daily checklists, paper binders over perfect dashboards, micro-commitments that compound, and choosing the right partners who hold you to your dream (not hostage to theirs). If the future you sat across the table today, would they see someone who keeps promises to everyone but themselves—or someone learning to say “no” with love so their “yes” can mean everything?If you’ve ever struggled to fire a habit, fire a role, or (real talk) fire a relationship that keeps you small—this one’s for you. We’re not chasing gold stars; we’re building a spine.The gang puts together 6 questions for each episode. They then journal on those questions and discuss each one during the episode.EPISODE OUTLINE:1. When have you set a high standard for yourself — but failed to meet it? What got in the way, and how did you respond to that failure?2. Do you feel more motivated by internal accountability or external accountability — and how do those forces show up in your life?3. What’s a routine, mindset, or system that helps you track and follow through on your goals — even when no one else is watching?4. Have you ever crossed the line between being accountable and being a people pleaser? How do you know when your “yes” is genuine and not guilt-driven?5. What makes someone a great accountability partner — and how do you choose the right people to hold you to your dreams?6. If the version of you in your head could sit across from you right now — what would they say about how you’re showing up today?WANT TO JOIN IN THE CONVERSATION WITH US?Join the DISMOUNT Discord: https://discord.gg/y96ABbWnsJWant to join the conversation? We have a separate page for every episode we record in our DiscordFollow this link to find the DISMOUNT Server: https://discord.gg/y96ABbWnsJSMASH that SUBSCRIBE BUTTON and ride along with us on this journey! Follow Dismount on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok: YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClPMuSnSbC4tGSYcbqbeTfwt   IG: https://www.instagram.com/dismountcastTW: https://twitter.com/dismountcast TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@dismountcast